public workshops

Did you get good sex ed in middle or high school? For most adults in the U.S., the answer is no. Sex Ed For Adults is a public workshop series that brings you the basics of bodies, identities, health, and pleasure in interactive workshops taught by sex education professionals. Come learn, network, and maybe take home a prize!

one-on-one coaching

Do you need personal advice or consultation on a topic related to sexual health, pleasure, or relationship issues? I offer affordable one-on-one coaching by phone, suitable for one-time inquiries or ongoing coaching. Just like my workshops, my coaching style is informed by an intersectional, queer-inclusive, sex-positive, harm reduction framework. 

custom workshops

Whether you’re a youth worker, peer leader, or student group social chair, SE4A adapts comprehensive sexual health education offerings for youth and adults, ages 12+. All workshops are taught from an intersectional and trauma-responsive lens, offering medically accurate information in a dynamic and engaging format.

professional development

Let’s work together to dismantle rape culture! SE4A trainings equip sex educators, school-based professionals, clinicians, activists, and others with the facilitation skills, self-care strategies, and best practices for promoting sexual freedom in safe and comfortable settings. Curriculum consultation, capacity building, sensitivity reading, one-on-one coaching, and other professional development services available.

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About se4a

Sex Ed for All is a project by Haylin Belay LLC offering public classes, comprehensive sex education workshops, and professional development for educators and activists working for sexual and reproductive justice.

Who is Haylin? I'm a seasoned sex educator and holistic health promotion professional with a focus in reproductive justice and youth empowerment. I have over a decade of hands-on experience developing health education programming and providing facilitation trainings for activists and educators, and my expertise is in teaching practical skills for a healthier, more pleasurable life through a trauma-responsive lens. I'm also a yoga instructor and wellness coach, offering group classes, workshops, and one-on-one coaching from an integrated mind-body-spirit perspective. View resume

in the press


TV Interview: Sex. Right. Now., "Ladies of Sex Tech" [trailer]
Interview: Cosmopolitan, “The Sex Ed Crisis” [“Virginity-Focused Sex Ed Shames Victims”]


Podcast Profile: Real Talk Radio, "Haylin Belay on Sex Education, Modern Witchcraft, and Relationship Anarchy"
Podcast Profile: Juicy Bits, "Sexpert Haylin Belay"
Podcast Profile: Biology of the Blog, "Haylin Belay"
Podcast Interview: Flash Forward, "How Is Babby (Not) Made"
Podcast Interview: Radio Interview: Sex Ed with DB, "Meet Your Students Where They're At"


Rewire, High School Is Too Late to Start Teaching Consent to Kids”
Daily Dot, “Meet Miss Vera: The gender coach who’s helped hundreds discover their true identities”
Splinter (formerly Fusion), “This smart and sexy pop-up shop is every feminist’s dream come true” & “The nightmare of watching Netflix while battling PTSD” & ”Should every man do Kegels?” & “This #BlackLivesMatter pole-dance protest is beautiful” & “There’s a whole world of luxury vegan condoms out there for when you get tired of regular rubbers”
The Tempest,Black people can't get depression and other mental health myths”

Profiled by…
Profile: AYO Magazine, "Health Educator Haylin Belay Wants You to Be Okay With Sex"
Profile: Blue & White Magazine, "Campus Character: Haylin Belay"

Quoted in..., "JAM Empowers Middle and High School Students through Sex-Ed"
InStyle, "Sexual Consent: Why We Still Haven’t Gotten the Conversation Right"

speaking credits

Sex Down South 2019 “Sex-Positive Yoga”, “How to Have Good Sex: Talking About Pleasure With Youth”

Access Matters Leading the Way Conference 2018 [Panel] “Beyond the Yes Means Yes Consent Model”

Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit 2018 [Panel] "Beyond Consent: Power, Pleasure, Profit"

Black Girl Project Sisterhood Summit 2018 "The Sacrament of Yes: Creating a Positive Consent Culture"

Civil Liberties and Public Policy 2018 [Panel] "Power, Pleasure, Profit: Radical Visions of Consent"

National Sex Ed Conference 2017 "Creating, Maintaining, and Repairing Safe Spaces"

SisterSong 2017 [Plenary Panel] "Power, Pleasure, Profit: Radical Visions of Consent"

Columbia University Scholars Program Symposium 2014 "Alcohol use and risky sexual behavior among young adults living in Nantes, France"

BACCHUS Initiative General Assemblies 2012/2013/2014; Regional Assembly 2013/2014; IvyAlcohol Symposium 2014 "Responsible Communities @ Columbia: Peer Education Models for Alcohol Education"

Private workshops, education consulting, and professional development for NY Interschool ; The Doula Project ; Terrace Club at Princeton University ; SHAG (sensitive content); Girls Inc of NYC ; Ali Forney Center ; Gwen Shockey Fine Art at Amos Eno Gallery, and others.

digital workbooks